LIVE YOUR LIFE LIKE IT IS NO ONE"S BUSINESS!!!!!!!

The world is a careless place filled with many trivial matters,
while you are in this world,
care less,
ignore trivial matters,
And live your life!!!!!!!!

HAPPY TIPS!!!!!

Seize every opportunity to put a smile on someone's face in the little or most way possible,it has the most refreshing feeling and it makes you younger!!!!!!!!
Never stop feeling good about yourself,it makes you happy always!!!!!!!

mistake,,,,,,,,,,,,an important component of success!!!!!

Mistake,an important part of success?
Yes!!!!
why is that so?
Falling down,slowing down,looking left,turning right,listening to the wrong people,refusing to do what you were supposed to do,etc are all forms of mistakes!!
If you don"t make a mistake,how will you know the right thing to do next time?
For me, mistake is committed once but a second or third time is a choice,we are bound to make mistakes as humans but fresh ones not repeated!!!!!!
Every successful individual today did not make it to the top by just folding his arms and flying without falling or faltering his steps but the one most important thing they did was to get back up once they fell or steady their feet once their steps were faltered with an even greater depth of determination!!!!!
So you see,,,!!!!
Mistake is definitely an important component of success!!!!!!!

Rhoda"s deepest thoughts: Rihanna - Diamonds(SPARKLE LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORR...

Rhoda"s deepest thoughts: Rihanna - Diamonds(SPARKLE LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORR...: Is there any of you out there feeling down?not feeling like yourself?hating who you are?not able to find herself or himself in the world yet...

Rihanna - Diamonds(SPARKLE LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW COS YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE SKY)

Is there any of you out there feeling down?not feeling like yourself?hating who you are?not able to find herself or himself in the world yet?have you been betrayed and now you feel really lost? are you one of those that have made several mistakes that you feel cannot be corrected?have you been told you are nothing or ugly by your loved one or anyone and you feel dejected?listen to this song diamonds by Rihanna,,,,,,i am also listening to it and digest every note and lyrics of the song,claim it, for you my friend are beautiful.You are a diamond regardless of what anyone says,do not let what anyone say to you to affect how bright you shine. For guess what! they are only torturing YOU because they see YOU as a THREAT!!!!!!!DON'T BE AFRAID TO SHINE,ANYONE YOU HATES IT SHOULD GO AND HUG TRANSFORMER,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,!!!!!!!!!!have a lovely weekend and don't be sad,,,,,,,,i love you plenty and God loves you even more!!!!!!

things NOT to do to your children as a parent(present and future)

• DONT"S                                                                                                                                                            Don"t  intrude                                                                                                                                                      Don"t deceive                                                                                                                                                   Don"t impose                                                                                                                                                              Don"t compare                                                                                                                                                               Don"t pretend                                                                                                                                                                       Don"t react irrationally                                                                                                                                        I AM MY PARENTS" CHILD,I KNOW HOW IT FEELS!!!!!!!!!!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               

misunderstanding,,,,,,,,,,,a deadly weapon!!!!!!

1 have heard about and witnessed a lot of ships sink or wrecked because of the misunderstanding between or among people and even animals!!!!!!!!yeah animals e.g dog-fight.                                                                       The ships prone to this fiasco include relationship,friendship,partnership,courtship,,,,,,,,,etc!!!!!!!                         As for those of you who do not really know what it means for one to be misunderstood,                                                Misunderstanding is when two parties don/t see eye to eye on something at the same time,when two people argue about something from different perspectives,it is when two parties quarrel over an issue,or one mistaking someone"s action or actions to mean a different thing!!!!                                                                                     Now i could go on and on about the definition of misunderstanding  just that this write up might become boring to the reader,i hope you understand!!!!!!!!                                                                                                             Having explained that,let us look at misunderstanding as a deadly tool,why,,,,,,,,misunderstanding has scattered a lot of homes that were once happy,it has destroyed a lot of friendships that can never be repaired,it has annulled the contract between two partners and has destroyed many business associations and wrecked many relationships feeling hearts with hatred,bitterness,anger,envy,jealousy and even the urge to kill due to unresolved issues.                                                                                                                                                               Please be careful and mindful of these consequences because they are lethal,try as much as possible to understand someone for even a doctor can destroy a patient"s life because he didnot understand fully what the patient was complaining of,was not ready to listen to him or her neither pay attention to the body signs,he just jumped to his own conclusion ignoring the facts which was what the patient was telling him and guess what now,,,,,,the patient"s life is hanging on a thread,the doctor is panicking,,,,,,,,,,and a lot of people are saying,,,,,,,,,,omg,it is too late!!!!!!!!!!                                                                                                                             PLEASE,do not behave like the doctor,if you have issues settle them,if you do not understand why a person,a friend,your child,your sister,your brother,your neighbor,your spouse or even your pet is acting the way he,she or it is,ask,find out,discuss your opinion with them for it will go a long way to help a lot of ugly situations!!!!!   THANKS FOR READING AND UNDERSTANDING,,,,,,,,(lol)not misunderstanding,you no what i mean sweet things!!!!!!LOVE YOU GUYS,,,,,,,,HAVE A LOVELY WEEKEND, RHODA!!!!!

GARDENER MISUNDERSTANDING | ADHD

Be true to yourself my dear friend for the one person you cannot lie to is YOU.                                                   If for any reason you lie to or deceive yourself,it will always come back to hunt you!!!!!!!!                                        Don"t lie to yourself for it is only you that can make things right for YOU!!!!!!                                        

Happiness

Happiness is a state of mind where you are absolutely free and peaceful.                                               Happiness is when you are full of positive energy and have a mind full of pleasant excitement!           For me I am completely happy because I feel free absolutely,I dumped things that did not matter to me in the trash can.i decided to leave things that stand in the way of my happiness behind through absolute forgiveness and mortal divinity and closing those cranky doors!                                                     Stop pursuing happiness,create happiness starting within yourself.                                                         Don't worry about the unknown or uncertain,and just be happy!                                                             Smile more,frown less.                                                                                                                             Feel more,think less.                                                                                                                                 Talk less,listen more.                                                                                                                                 Judge less,accept more.                                                                                                                             Watch less,do more.                                                                                                                                                    Complain less,appreciate more.                                                                                                                    Fear less,love more!

THIS BITCH LIFE -LIVE IT OR LET IT LIVE YOU - Video Dailymotion

THIS BITCH LIFE -LIVE IT OR LET IT LIVE YOU - Video Dailymotion

when i watched this video,,,,,,,,i got inspired,,,,,,,,,you too can be!!!!!!

are you going to be strong or are you going to be weak?

loving yourself is the first step to self discovery and the greatest love of all!!!!

lend a helping hand to others,it is the only way to receive!!!!!!!

Forgive yourself

Forgiving yourself is the only way you can move forward with your life!i know it either sounds like what heard a couple of times.yeah,it did like that to me,until one day I forgave myself and only then was I able to move on without a care in the world!                                                                                             I used to beat myself so hard whenever people close to me shut me out of their lives,I tried so hard to pave a way into their lives but I could not.Then I will ask myself this question,what did I do that was so bad that cannot be forgiven?                                                          Each time I ask them if I had done anything wrong,the reply I usually get was nothing but the most unsettling thing was the fact that despite their responses,their attitude towards me did not change,and this used to take me off my rockers!                                                     This bothered me for a while and I was not able to move on and be happy all through,was scared of ending up alone with no friends so I struggled and struggled but all efforts proved abortive.                                                                                                             In my struggle to being free,I went through it the wrong way and that was trying to do me but in other people's way.then I realized the fact that its possible I had made mistakes,hurt people as well,also above everything I was not perfect and so is everyone,I forgave myself for everything I had done knowingly and unknowingly ,even when others didn't,I did and I know God forgave me too!                                                                           It was in that moment I realized real peace,went out dealt with these people with so much peace and happiness,moved on without worrying about what others were thinking.           This was only possible because I forgave myself,you too can do it!                                          Life is a mess,we are only humans,sometimes we make mistakes,but we cannot continue to punish or torture ourselves because of others,you need to forgive yourself so you can move on!                                                                                                                                    Well I hope I touched someone's life with these words tonight.thanks for reading!

the heart and the brain!!!!!!!

the brain has stuffs worth living for                                                                                                   the heart has stuffs worth dying for                                                                           the brain is what keeps the heart strong                                                                                                the heart is what keeps the brain weak                                  if you want to be the best you can be,work with both not one of them                                                           imagine your best in your brain,feel it in your heart                                                          combine both forces for the driving forces behind these two is what will move you to act on what you feel and think which is becoming the best you can be!!!!!!!!

cranky doors!!!!!!!!

A lot of bad things have happened to me all because i couldn"t differentiate  the door to opportunities from the door to misfortune,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,probably you my friend has the same experience as i did!!!!!!!!The reality in this is not all doors lead to great fortune,you need to realise this and you need to be bold enough to shut those doors.Close some doors today not because of pride,incapacity,disbelief,fear or arrogance but simply because they lead nowhere.Goodmorning!!!!!!!

my deepest thoughts: LIFE A DIVINE CHAOS

my deepest thoughts: LIFE A DIVINE CHAOS: Fall in love or fall out of love                                                                                                            ...

LIFE A DIVINE CHAOS

Fall in love or fall out of love                                                                                                                                                         get inspired  or get depressed                                                                                                                                                Ace a test or flunk a class                                                                                                                                                       make babies or make history                                                                                                                     Speak the truth or tell a lie                                                                                                                                                              Dance on tables or sit in the corner                                                                                                                                   Life is a divine chaos.Embrace it or get lost.                                                                                                        Forgive yourself.breathe,live,be happy                                                                                                     Stay focused and enjoy the ride!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!